Sisanda kufakaza ukuphela kuka-2022, ngonyaka oweza ubunzima kwabaningi ngenxa yobhubhane ohlala isikhathi eside, umnotho owohlokayo kanye nokungqubuzana okulimazayo okunemiphumela emide kakhulu. Njalo lapho sacabanga ukuthi saphendukela ekhoneni, impilo yaphonsa elinye i-curveball. Ukuze uthole isifinyezo esingu-2022, ngicabanga kuphela ngokuphela okunamandla kusuka kuWilliam Faulkner's umsindo kanye nokufutheka: bakhuthazela.
Unyaka ozayo wenyanga unyaka wonogwaja. Angazi ukuthi ngabe unogwaja olandelayo uzokhipha ini esigqokweni, kodwa ake ngithi ngithi "unogwaja, unogwaja", kusho ibinzana "ekuqaleni kwenyanga ngenhlanhla.
Ekuqaleni konyaka omusha, kuyisiko ngathi ukwenza izifiso ezinhle. Angazi uma ngifisa ukuthi othile onenhlanhla noma inhlanhla enkulu angasiza, kodwa ngibonile ukuthi ukuthumela imithandazo nemicabango kungasebenza izimangaliso. Phakathi kokunye, kwakha ama-vibes amahle okunakekelwa nokunakwa kokuphakamisa imimoya yalabo ezinsukwini zabo ezinzima kakhulu.
Ngaphambi kokujika konyaka, iningi lezihlobo zami eChina, kubandakanya umama wami oneminyaka engama-93, wathola inkava. Umndeni wami nabangane bathandaze, bathumela ukwesekwa futhi baphakamisa omunye komunye ngokomoya. Umama wami wanqoba ukugula, futhi kanjalo nezinye izihlobo. Ngiyakwazisa ukuba nomndeni omkhulu ukusekelana, okwenza kwaba nokuzabalaza ndawonye nethemba, esikhundleni sokucwila ngamunye ngamunye ngokuphelelwa yithemba.
Ekhuluma ngokuba nomndeni omkhulu, ngiyakhumbula ukuthi emasikweni aseNtshonalanga, onogwaja bahlotshaniswa nokuzala kanye nokuvuselelwa kwempilo. Baphindaphindeka ngokushesha, okungabonisa impilo entsha kanye nobuningi. Sigubha unyaka wonogwaja njalo ngeminyaka eyi-12, kepha unyaka nonyaka, ngosuku lwe-Easter, umuntu ubona ama-easter bunnies, abonisa ukuzalwa okusha nempilo entsha.
Amanani okuzalwa awela emazweni amaningi emhlabeni jikelele, kufaka neChina. Kwangathi uNyaka oMusha angaletha ithemba, ukuze abantu bafune ukuba nezingane ukuzofaka futhi bamukele lelo themba.
Ngonyaka owedlule, imikhaya eminingi yazabalaza ngokwezezimali; Kulungile kuphela ukuthi silwele ukululama komnotho nokukhula. Onogwaja bahlotshaniswa nenhlanhla nenhlanhla. Ngokuqinisekile singasebenzisa okunye kwalokhu ngemuva konyaka wokusebenza kwamasheya amabi kanye namanani abathengi akhuphukayo.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi amaShayina aphendukela ekuhlakanipheni okuthile konobi uma kuziwa ekutshalweni kwezimali, njengoba kukhonjisiwe kwisaga: "Unogwaja onobuhlakani unemihume emithathu." Lesi saga singasho - ngokuya kwesinye isaga - ukuthi akufanele ubeke amaqanda akho kubhasikidi owodwa, noma: "Unogwaja onomgodi owodwa uthathwa ngokushesha" (Isaga sesiNgisi). Njengenothi eliseceleni, umhume wogwaja ubizwe futhi ngokuthi "umngcele". Iqembu lama-burrows libizwa nge- "Warren", njengase-Warren Buffett "(abukho ubudlelwano).
Onogwaja futhi bayizimpawu zokushesha nokuqina, okubangelwa ukuba nempilo enhle. Ekuqaleni konyaka omusha, senza izinqumo zonyaka omusha ezibandakanya ama-Gyms kanye nokudla. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokudla, kufaka phakathi ukudla kwe-paleo, okuvimbela ushukela, nokudla kwaseMedithera, okubandakanya okusanhlamvu, izithelo, imifino, ezinye izinhlanzi, imikhiqizo yobisi nemikhiqizo yenyama. Ukudla kwe-ketogenic kufaka phakathi ama-protein aphezulu, amaprotheni anele kanye nokusetshenziswa okuphansi. Ngenkathi ezinye izinto ziyehluka, i-denominator ejwayelekile yazo zonke izindlela ezinempilo "zokudla unogwaja", inkulumo evamile ephathelene nemifino enamahlamvu nokunye ukudla okususelwa kwizitshalo.
Ngaphesheya kwamasiko, unogwaja ufanekisela ubumsulwa kanye nangekulula; Kuhlotshaniswa nobuntwana. I-Adventures ka-Alice eWonderland ifaka unogwaja omhlophe njengomlingiswa ophakathi nendawo oqondisa u-Alice njengoba ehamba nge-Wonderland. Unogwaja futhi ungamela umusa nothando: UMargery William's Rabbit ukhuluma ngendaba yonogwaja wethoyithi eba ngomusa othandweni lwengane, indaba enamandla yoshintsho ngomusa. Sengathi singazikhumbula lezi zimfanelo. Okungenani, musa ukulimala, noma "okungenangozi njengonogwaja wezilwane", ikakhulukazi kubantu abanjengonogwaja abaziwa ngokukhuthazela kwabo. "Ngisho nokuluma unogwaja lapho kufakwa" (Isaga saseChina).
Ukufingqa, ngithemba ukuthi ngingaboleka kwezinye zezihloko kuJohn ukubuyekeza iTetralogy (Unogwaja, Run; Unogwaja futhi unogwaja uyakhunjulwa): Unogwaja uyakhunjulwa)
Jabulela unyaka omusha! Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngasekupheleni konyaka wonogwaja, amagama angukhiye wokuza engqondweni yethu ngeke esaba: bakhuthazela. Esikhundleni salokho: bakujabulele!
Isikhathi Seposi: Jan-20-2023